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Is My Wife an Overspender, or Am I a Nag?
Is My Wife an Overspender, or Am I a Nag?
When a financial problem is really an emotional one
Kristin Wong
Mar 3, 2020
Don’t Let Your Partner Take Charge of the Finances
Don’t Let Your Partner Take Charge of the Finances
Why money management is something couples should do together
Kristin Wong
Feb 25, 2020
When Unemployment Is Killing Your Relationship
When Unemployment Is Killing Your Relationship
Tying your self-worth to your job can backfire
Kristin Wong
Feb 18, 2020
How Can I Tell My Partner I Want to Separate Our Finances?
How Can I Tell My Partner I Want to Separate Our Finances?
Ever since we combined our money, we’ve been fighting all the time
Kristin Wong
Jan 20, 2020
‘Should I Be Worried That My Boyfriend Refuses to Talk About Money?’
‘Should I Be Worried That My Boyfriend Refuses to Talk About Money?’
How to have an awkward but necessary conversation
Kristin Wong
Jan 6, 2020
‘My Partner’s Family Spends Too Much On Holiday Gifts’
‘My Partner’s Family Spends Too Much On Holiday Gifts’
How to navigate a gifting culture clash
Kristin Wong
Dec 16, 2019
How Can I Keep My Holiday Shopping Secret From My Husband?
How Can I Keep My Holiday Shopping Secret From My Husband?
Strategies for keeping the mystery in gift-giving when you share a credit card
Kristin Wong
Dec 9, 2019
‘Should I Feel Bad About Not Going Home for the Holidays?’
‘Should I Feel Bad About Not Going Home for the Holidays?’
My family is making me feel guilty, but I have a budget to stick to
Kristin Wong
Dec 2, 2019
‘My Wife Won’t Stop Giving Her Daughter Money’
‘My Wife Won’t Stop Giving Her Daughter Money’
We can’t stop fighting about it. Should we just separate our finances?
Kristin Wong
Nov 25, 2019
How Can I Talk About the Motherhood Tax With My Husband?
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How Can I Talk About the Motherhood Tax With My Husband?
We’ve always kept our finances separate, but now that we have a baby, it feels like the cost is disproportionately falling on me
Kristin Wong
Nov 18, 2019
My Family Is Using Money to Control Me
My Family Is Using Money to Control Me
How do I get out from under their thumb without causing any conflict?
Kristin Wong
Nov 11, 2019
Our Money Pit of a House Is Hurting Our Marriage
Our Money Pit of a House Is Hurting Our Marriage
Fixing it up is making us broke and miserable
Kristin Wong
Nov 4, 2019
How Do I Make My Husband Stop Giving Money to His Parents?
How Do I Make My Husband Stop Giving Money to His Parents?
He’s enabling their terrible financial decisions, and it’s putting a strain on our relationship
Kristin Wong
Oct 28, 2019
I Feel Guilty About Being a Stay-at-Home Parent
I Feel Guilty About Being a Stay-at-Home Parent
My husband and I agreed it was the right choice for us, but I worry about being seen as lazy
Kristin Wong
Oct 21, 2019
My Partner’s Inheritance Is Making Us Fight All the Time
My Partner’s Inheritance Is Making Us Fight All the Time
He received a lot of money when his father died, and now it feels like the power balance in our relationship is skewed
Kristin Wong
Oct 14, 2019
My Debt Is Sabotaging My Relationship
My Debt Is Sabotaging My Relationship
My partner doesn’t understand why I don’t want to move in together until I’ve paid off my loans
Kristin Wong
Oct 7, 2019
Could My Partner’s Privileged Background Doom Our Relationship?
Could My Partner’s Privileged Background Doom Our Relationship?
He grew up rich and doesn’t have to work. I barely have any savings.
Kristin Wong
Sep 30, 2019
Do I Have to Tell My Co-workers How Much I Make?
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Do I Have to Tell My Co-workers How Much I Make?
I know it could be helpful, but sharing something so personal makes me really uncomfortable
Kristin Wong
Sep 23, 2019
How Can I Stop Being Weird About My Partner Covering My Rent?
How Can I Stop Being Weird About My Partner Covering My Rent?
He’s asked me to live with him for free while I’m in school, but I’m uncomfortable being so dependent on him
Kristin Wong
Sep 16, 2019
How Can I Get My Partner to Stop Micromanaging My Money?
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How Can I Get My Partner to Stop Micromanaging My Money?
It’s hard not to feel resentful
Kristin Wong
Sep 9, 2019
Can I Ask to Be Included in My Partner’s Will?
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Can I Ask to Be Included in My Partner’s Will?
We’ve been together for 20 years, but he wants to leave everything to his adult children
Kristin Wong
Sep 3, 2019
Could I Be Responsible for My Partner’s Debt?
Could I Be Responsible for My Partner’s Debt?
Before we get married, I want to know how to protect myself financially
Kristin Wong
Aug 26, 2019
How Do I Convince My Husband to Stop Shopping Online?
How Do I Convince My Husband to Stop Shopping Online?
I’m trying to be responsible, but his Amazon packages keep coming
Kristin Wong
Aug 19, 2019
How Do My Partner and I Merge Our Finances, While Keeping Our Autonomy?
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How Do My Partner and I Merge Our Finances, While Keeping Our Autonomy?
We have become financially interdependent, but I’m uncomfortable telling my partner what to do with his money
Kristin Wong
Aug 12, 2019
How Soon Is Too Soon to Buy a House With My Boyfriend?
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How Soon Is Too Soon to Buy a House With My Boyfriend?
We haven’t been dating long, but I feel good about our future
Kristin Wong
Aug 5, 2019
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