Now Is the Time for Low-Stakes Hobbies
We’re often surprisingly good at things we don’t care that much about
Should you suddenly find yourself with more time on your hands, perhaps for pandemic-related reasons, consider this: Studies have found that enjoyable leisure activities are actually good for your health.
In this cultural moment when we’re all trying to be really good at a lot of things, it can be deeply freeing to just do something we don’t care that much about. For one, we tend to be better at those things.
I’ve heard plenty of other anecdotes from people who didn’t care about being successful in a particular area, only to find that disregard helped them nail it, from playing video games to folding fitted sheets to playing the dulcimer. Katy Kelleher, a Maine-based writer, once went skeet shooting on a whim. She wasn’t particularly invested in the outcome, yet she turned out to be the best shot in her group. “Our old Mainer guide who ran the class told me that women are often great at this sport because they don’t try as hard,” she said. “Apparently with skeet shooting it pays to just shoot your shot and not worry too much about aiming.”
“I definitely notice this dynamic more with people who want to be good, and struggle with it,” says Erica Lanier, a state park ranger who teaches…
