How I Manage to Work a 5-Hour Workday
‘Busy’ is not a badge of honor — more often, it’s the mark of someone who can’t manage their time
There was a time when I was proud of how long and hard I worked. When my most significant relationship was with a meal-delivery service that allowed me to chain myself to a laptop for 16 hours a day. When I missed important life moments of the people close to me — from weddings to baby showers to divorce parties — because I was tethered to a pitch deck or Ubering to another meeting or doing something I thought I was necessary to thrive as a marketing exec.
The office has become our place of worship, and long hours are our way of demonstrating our devoutness. Perhaps, as a result, we’re experiencing record-level rates of anxiety and depression.
My own devotion to the cult of overwork eventually led me to a nervous breakdown, insomnia, and a host of other health-related issues. Far too late, I reached a point when I was done crushing it, killing it, destroying it, or whatever other violent metaphor I happened to be channeling that day. I wanted a life. I wanted to spend my time with the people I love. I wanted to toast my friend at her divorce party. So I quit trying to work harder and learned how to work smarter.
