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Joint Accounts

How Can I Tell My Partner I Want to Separate Our Finances?

Ever since we combined our money, we’ve been fighting all the time

Illustration: Laurie Rollitt

Dear Joint Accounts,

My partner and I have lived together for several years now, and we made the decision to finally merge our finances about a year ago. Since then, it’s become…




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Kristin Wong

Kristin Wong

Kristin Wong has written for the New York Times, The Cut, Catapult, The Atlantic and ELLE.

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