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A Thought Experiment to Help You See Your Next Step
Ask yourself the ‘Miracle Questions’
Often, when we’re feeling stuck, it’s because we can’t see beyond what’s in front of us. Our brains fall into the same old ways of thinking, which can continue indefinitely — unless we find new ways to challenge them and interrupt the pattern.
Through studying solution-based therapy, which helps people solve problems by focusing on the present rather than looking to their past, I learned about the power of the “Miracle Questions,” a set of questions that can help you uncover your greatest values and desires, and find creative ways to live in alignment with them. These questions helped me tremendously when I struggled with social anxiety and knowing my life’s purpose.
Before beginning this exercise, grab some paper or your journal and find a quiet space where you can think and write. Then answer these five questions in as much detail as possible:
Imagine that tonight, while you’re sleeping, a miracle happens and your biggest personal problems are solved. You wake up with a new and improved life. Ask yourself…
How will you first realize the miracle has happened?
What will be different about yourself?
