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A Therapist’s Simple Rule Transformed My Marriage

Treat your spouse with the same level of politeness you would afford, like, any other human being

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My husband and I are both writers who have worked at opposite ends of our kitchen table for the past 10 years — just imagine that for a minute. Because we’ve been together virtually around the clock, we’re at least…

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Jancee Dunn

Jancee Dunn

Author of How Not To Hate Your Husband After Kids. Frequent contributor to NYT Parenting, Vogue, and Travel & Leisure. Website: IG: @janceedunn

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