A Stoic tip for managing stress

Cari Nazeer
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2 min readSep 11, 2020

📓 Today’s tip: Track your your reactions to stressful moments.

So many of our daily stressors fall into patterns that are actually quite predictable — and the key to managing your stress is to identify the patterns, something Forge senior editor Amy Shearn found while studying the ancient (and now popular again) philosophy of Stoicism.

The technique Shearn discovered is simple: Keep a “self monitoring record” throughout the day—write it down, keep an email draft, make a note on your phone—of moments that cause you stress or discomfort, noting what triggered that stress, what thoughts and emotions it led to, and how much control you do or do not actually have over the event.

As the Forge writer (and Stoicism devotee) Ryan Holiday tells Shearn, “The most important daily practice for the Stoic life is tracking small revelations.” Stoic or not, reminding yourself of what’s outside your control in moments of stress is a timeless, and useful, habit.

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Cari Nazeer
Cari Nazeer

Written by Cari Nazeer

Former lead editor, Forge @ Medium

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