You Don’t Have to ‘Be Nice’ No Matter What Happens
There’s a reason you wince at posts that try to tie up this election with a neat little bow
On social media, I’ve been seeing posts saying that we should be kind to each other because no matter who wins, “we are all still neighbors.”
While these types of messages might seem fairly uncontroversial and even welcomed in a volatile political climate, please remember that for marginalized folks, it’s not that easy.
For me, as an openly queer woman, this election is not simply about preferring a candidate or political party. This election is about my right to work without harassment, to have my marriage legally recognized, and to exist in a world that feels safe. While some friends might be able to smile at their neighbors and “just be nice,” my wife and I are currently trying to get our legal documents in order so that we can make decisions for one another in the event of a medical emergency. And as a white, cisgender person, my worries pale in comparison to the struggles faced by trans folks in my community, as well as the struggles of BIPOC, people whose lives are impacted daily by white supremacy.
If Donald Trump wins, we won’t be waving at his supporters and looking for good ol’ neighborly behavior: We’ll be trying to stay…
