You Can Be Hopeful Without Being Optimistic

Cari Nazeer
Forge
Published in
2 min readNov 4, 2020

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Right now, roughly two years into this extremely long day, assuming the worst is the only thing many of us have the energy for. Psychologists call it “defensive pessimism:” the strategy of managing anxiety over an undesirable outcome by lowering expectations to meet it.

Defensive pessimism helps, sometimes, because it forces planning — in thinking through that awful hypothetical, what…

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