Why Trying to Relax Is So Damn Stressful

Relaxation-induced anxiety is a real psychological diagnosis. Here’s how to tell if you have it.

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Madison Malone Kircher is a staff writer at New York Magazine. She lives in Brooklyn. Twitter: @4evrmalone

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