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Joint Accounts

When Unemployment Is Killing Your Relationship

Tying your self-worth to your job can backfire

Illustration: Laurie Rollitt

Dear Joint Accounts,

I have been married to my husband for two years. After our wedding, I gave up my job as a corporate lawyer so we could move abroad to be near my in-laws. Ever since the move, I’ve been trying to figure out a new…




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Kristin Wong

Kristin Wong

Kristin Wong has written for the New York Times, The Cut, Catapult, The Atlantic and ELLE.

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