Apr 16, 2020
8 min read
Why I Stopped Being a ‘Nice Guy’
Men have to dig deep to uncover the sources of our hidden misogyny
I spent most of my twenties in New York chasing women. With my shy, sensitive demeanor, they thought I was safe: a “nice guy.” “Boyfriend material.” But I see now that I was less interested in a relationship than the validation of a woman’s desire. Once I had it, I lost interest. I’d run off…
