We’ve Been Married for 20 Years and Don’t Hate Each Other. Here’s How We Do It.

Go to bed angry, appreciate each other out loud, and other lessons

Alexandra Samuel
Forge
Published in
7 min readJul 30, 2020

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Photo of a couple lying on opposite sides of the couch.
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Co-authored by Rob Cottingham

It’s our 20th wedding anniversary. This feels like both a blessing and an achievement, and we wanted to celebrate by sharing what we’ve learned — and what we’ve…

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Alexandra Samuel
Forge
Writer for

Speaker on hybrid & remote work. Author, Remote Inc. Contributor to Wall Street Journal & Harvard Business Review. https://AlexandraSamuel.com/newsletter