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We’ve Been Married for 20 Years and Don’t Hate Each Other. Here’s How We Do It.

Go to bed angry, appreciate each other out loud, and other lessons

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Co-authored by Rob Cottingham

It’s our 20th wedding anniversary. This feels like both a blessing and an achievement, and we wanted to celebrate by sharing what we’ve learned — and what we’ve…

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Alexandra Samuel

Alexandra Samuel

Author, Remote Inc: How To Thrive at Work…Wherever You Are. Tech speaker. Writer & data journalist for Wall Street Journal, Harvard Business Review & more.

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