We’ve Been Married for 20 Years and Don’t Hate Each Other. Here’s How We Do It.

Go to bed angry, appreciate each other out loud, and other lessons

Photo of a couple lying on opposite sides of the couch.

Co-authored by Rob Cottingham

It’s our 20th wedding anniversary. This feels like both a blessing and an achievement, and we wanted to celebrate by sharing what we’ve learned — and what we’ve…