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To Argue Productively, Meet in a Neutral Space

The spaces where we disagree have a hidden effect on our arguments

Illustration: Siggi Odds

TThink back to a recent argument. Now put aside the argument itself and think about the environment that the argument happened within. Was there anything about the environment that encouraged or discouraged different fruit of disagreement to emerge?




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Buster Benson

Buster Benson

Author of Why Are We Yelling? The Art of Productive Disagreement. I run Previously product at Patreon, Slack, Twitter, and Amazon.

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