The Secret Trap That’s Keeping You Stuck

What to do when you can’t just “move past it”

Photo by Fab Lentz on Unsplash

One lovely summer Saturday night, sitting at a half-empty Starbucks on the Upper East Side, I realized I had made a terrible mistake.

I had just bailed at the last minute on the bachelorette weekend of one of my closest friends. My hotel was paid for. Travel arrangements were made, and my bus…