The New Boredom

No, you don’t have to optimize it. Just live through it.

Amy Shearn
Forge

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Once upon a time, a million years ago, boredom was something we grudgingly admitted we might need a little more of in our overscheduled and overstimulated lives. At the beginning of the pandemic, we got, well, a lot more. Some of us tried to make the most of it: We heard that boredom would actually help us to be more creative, more productive.

Are we ready yet to say that boredom just… isn’t that great? There’s something uniquely uninspiring about pandemic boredom, and this piece by Shayla Love in Vice unpacks why that is: Boredom is, by definition, a lack — “a signal that what you’re currently doing isn’t meaningful to you and doesn’t grasp your attention,” Love writes.

What we actually want is maybe not boredom. What we actually want, I suspect, is greater comfort with ourselves and our minds, so that a bit (okay, a lot) of unscheduled free time doesn’t drive us bonkers. Let’s remember that when we start to feel somehow both antsy and dull, it’s a reminder to pay attention and find meaning—in our…

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