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The Fastest Way to Become the Person You Want to Be

Personality isn’t fixed — we just let ourselves get predictable

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People tend to default to the roles imposed by social environments. Putting yourself in new environments, around new people, and taking on new roles are the quickest ways to access different facets of your personality, for better or worse. Fully take on the roles you…

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