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The 4 Timeless Traits of Actual Masculinity

A gentlemen’s guide to being a man in the 21st century

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“There is one rule, above all others, for being a man. Whatever comes, face it on your feet.”
— Lan Mandragoran, The Wheel of Time

Several years ago, I found myself plagued by a question that stumped fellow men. So broad — and confusing — were the responses to the lone…




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