Soothe Your Election Dread With This Simple Exercise

Turn your evolutionary stress response into action

Christina Tesoro, LCSW
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To say 2020 has been a stressful year is almost insultingly obvious. As a therapist, I’ve watched my clients navigate job loss, social isolation, and concerns for the safety of their loved ones. With limited access to the places and activities we typically would turn to in order to cope, anxieties are running high and often have nowhere to go. And now, there’s the election.

One stress-management exercise I offer to my clients is to “zoom out” and then “zoom in” to gain a new perspective on stressors and chart a plan of action for getting unstuck. To understand how this process works, it helps to first understand how stress occurs in the body.

How stress works physiologically

Our bodies evolved to respond to stress as a contained event, with a beginning (you see a lion crouching in the grass about to pounce on you); middle (you either fight that lion, run like hell, or drop and play dead: fight, flight, or freeze); and end (you kill the lion, or run to the safety of your village to celebrate). The moment of danger passes, and the physiological process of the stress cycle is resolved.

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Christina Tesoro, LCSW
Forge
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Christina Tesoro is a New York City-based writer, sex educator, and therapist.