Resilience Is Not an Inner Strength
Here’s why our efforts to hack this quality will never work
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5 min readOct 18, 2019
When I first got divorced, I wasn’t sure if I’d ever be able to make ends meet. I had sole custody of my kids, no child support, and attorney fees five times the piddly amount in my new separate bank account. I was drowning in stress, and it showed. When I showered, a small mammal’s worth of hair clogged…