Make this small tweak for a pep talk that works

Cari Nazeer
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Nov 12, 2020

🗣️ Today’s tip: To psych yourself up to tackle something, ask, “Will I do this?”

Self-talk was once seen as something reserved for motivational gurus — Forge editor Michelle Woo recalls the SNL character Stuart Smalley staring into a mirror and proclaiming: “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggone it, people like me!” But it turns out there are practical, measurable benefits to adopting a positive inner narrative: It can reduce stress, help you make decisions, and keep you motivated.

How exactly you talk to yourself makes a difference. According to the latest research on self-talk, asking “Will I do this?” produces better results than making the statement “I will do this.” Try it with your goals. Ask yourself: “Will I walk 10,000 steps today?” or “Will I pitch my story to five publications?” or “Will I nail my next presentation?” You’re giving yourself a better chance that you will.

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Cari Nazeer
Cari Nazeer

Written by Cari Nazeer

Former lead editor, Forge @ Medium

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