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How to Write Your Own User Manual
If it works for C-suite execs, it might also come in handy at home, especially right now
By day three of our family quarantine, I was dangerously close to turning into a Gremlin.
In Gremlins, the 1984 comedy-horror masterpiece that Gen Xers like me watched through our fingers at childhood sleepovers, three simple rules keep the adorable creatures known as Mogwais from morphing into their evil alter egos, the Gremlins. Those rules were:
- Don’t expose them to bright lights.
- Don’t let them get wet.
- Don’t feed them after midnight.
I don’t want to spoil the movie for you, but just know that when people don’t follow the ownership guidelines, stuff goes south fast.
About 36 years later, I’m feeling a lot like the Mogwai. We’re all the Mogwai. Like it or not, most of us have a short list of instructions for our care and feeding, strict adherence to which keeps us from turning into monsters.
The problem is, the people around us don’t always know our rules. Half the time, we don’t know our own rules.
But what if we could write a document that would lay out the rules, for ourselves and others? A personal user manual of sorts?
