How to Tear Through a To-Do List

When all that needs to be done is too daunting

Sarah Stankorb
Forge

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Bullet journals. Post-its. Everyone has their methods.

I’m one of those absurd people who makes weekly, color-coded, master to-do lists, segmented to different aspects of my life: work, home, volunteer. I feel untethered without my lists, and without the tidy columns and bright colors, the gush of small and large tasks ahead can drown me.

I think I need the lists. The colors make the climb feel fun, break each mountain into a slightly more cheery hill.

When my life feels like chaos, it’s a means of organizing myself, brightening the mess, pretending I can impose order.

My list for this week could break me.

I’m in what I keep calling Act II of a three-act drama centered on emergency and long-term care for my parents. This has involved a hospital stay for one, respite care for the other, and now rehab for both. It featured me dropping away from a busy professional life for a week, hitting pause on my small town city council re-election campaign before it even properly started, and having a multi-hour fight with a bat in my parents’ home.

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Sarah Stankorb
Forge

Sarah Stankorb, author of Disobedient Women, has published with The Washington Post, Marie Claire, and many others. @sarahstankorb www.sarahstankorb.com