Four Ways to Storm Out of a Meeting, Ranked

What we can all learn from Nancy Pelosi’s abrupt exit from a meeting with Donald Trump

Corinne Purtill
Forge

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House Speaker Nancy Pelosi stands up in a meeting with President Trump and Congressional leadership Wednesday, Oct. 16, 2019.
Photo: Shealah Craighead

IIt’s a tense meeting. The stakes are high. You enter the room determined, reasonable, calm. Next thing you know, you’re in a shouting match over who hates ISIS more. The meeting is off the rails. You need to get out. But how?

Modern U.S. politics is an ongoing lesson in meeting walkouts. President Donald Trump and Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi’s most recent meeting about Trump’s withdrawal of troops from northern Syria, leaving U.S.-allied Kurdish forces exposed, ended with a volley of insults and a rather stilted walkout.

President Trump himself has a history of walking out of meetings, sometimes with an abrupt “bye-bye,” sometimes in ways clearly premeditated, with a podium set up in advance to discuss his walkout. At this point, one might suspect these cross-aisle meetings are being scheduled not for the purpose of productive discussion, but for the post-meeting exercise of telegraphing to the participants’ various constituencies how little they value the other’s time.

Google “how to leave a meeting” and all you get is pablum about polite, discreet exits that don’t disrupt the speaker or show disrespect to fellow attendees: Sit near the door…

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Corinne Purtill
Forge
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Journalist with words at Time, Quartz, and elsewhere. Author of Ghosts in the Forest, a Kindle Single.