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How to Own Up to a Mistake at Work

Don’t panic. Just follow these steps.

Deanna Pai
Forge
Published in
4 min readSep 25, 2019

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This isn’t about job-ending screwups. This is about not realizing a presentation was due today. This is about accidentally cc’ing a client on an email they definitely shouldn’t be reading. This is about the medium-size mistakes that make the day way more difficult than you, your boss, and your team thought it would be.

In moments like these, it’s always tempting to reach for excuses: you were given bad information, you never got the email, whatever moves the spotlight off of your own role in the screwup. But more often than not, shifting blame only makes you look worse. And as far-fetched as it may seem in the moment, it is possible to admit your mistake without shredding your reputation. In fact, owning up to it may be the only way to emerge from the situation unscathed. Here’s how to pull it off.

As crisis managers say: Get out in front of it

If it will take a while to get under control, or if you need to loop in a manager or client to reach a resolution, then have the conversation as soon as possible. “Withholding knowledge of an error may often be judged more harshly than the first,” says career coach Rebecca Fraser-Thill, director of faculty engagement at the Center for…

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Deanna Pai
Forge
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I’m a writer and editor in New York City. You can find my work in Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, New York Magazine, and beyond.