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How to Get Your Family to Stop Questioning Your Parenting Decisions

A script for coping with unsolicited parental advice

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FFrom the look on my grandmother’s face when I lifted my shirt to nurse my newborn son, you’d have thought I’d completely stripped down.




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Writer-mom hybrid. Health & psychology stories in NYT, WaPo, Allure, Real Simple, & more.

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