How To Feel Grateful (Even When You Really Don’t Want To)

Hint: Let the world be alive

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Here’s a list of the ways I am loved:

1. The couch loves me by holding me up.
2. My car loves me by telling me when it needs oil and gas.
3. My body loves me by alarming me when I need to get more sleep or eat less salt.
4. A zucchini loves me by climbing out of the ground, getting in a box, and coming to my house, where it also loves me by waiting in the refrigerator while I try to figure out what to do with it.
5. My cats love me by gifting me with dead mice and using their purrs to vibrate my pillow.
6. The world loves my novel by reading it, and by not reading it, too.
7. The plants love me by agreeing to be half of my breathing.
8. The rain loves me by falling on my house and also falling on the hillside full of vines.
9. My sweetheart loves me by being proud of me, disappointed in me (sometimes), and also by rubbing my feet (always).
10. The headphones love me by singing to me, just me and nobody else.

These are just a few ways that I’m loved by the things around me. By no means do I think that these efforts are the sole aims of rain, zucchini, or…