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How to Disappoint the Right People

As organizational psychologist Adam Grant writes, “part of setting healthy boundaries is deciding who you’re going to let down.”

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But, if I don’t go to her party, she’ll be so disappointed. I can’t tell you the number of times that kind of thought has gone through my head.




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Michelle Loucadoux, MBA

Michelle Loucadoux, MBA

Author, educator, and self-improvement nerd. Co-founder of Danscend. My books: My email:

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