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How to Control a Conversation Without Saying Much at All

When one speaker is monopolizing a discussion, use a tactic called ‘cognitive incision’

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FFor half an hour, my friend and I sat there in the restaurant booth, waiting to talk. To be asked a question. To be acknowledged at all. But the person across from us, another buddy who we were sharing a meal with…




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