How to Begin Practicing ‘Healthy Control’

Lessons from a recovering control freak

Catherine Andrews
Forge
Published in
4 min readOct 31, 2021

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My name is Catherine, and I’m a recovering control freak.

And I know I’m not alone.

If you identify as a sensitive person who struggles with people-pleasing, an inner critic, poor boundaries, overextending yourself, and trying to “fix” others by offering constant advice, it’s…

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Catherine Andrews
Forge
Writer for

Teaching awakening + healing through vulnerability + self-compassion. Finding hope in a messy world. Author of the Sunday Soother. http://catherinedandrews.com