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How To Be More Spontaneous
Think a little less and live a little more
If you’re like many other individuals currently living what society would deem a “typical” life, you may be familiar with the sudden, sometimes completely random realization that you’re acting out the exact same day today that you did yesterday (and the day before). This epiphany is often followed by a period of existential crisis that leaves you questioning whether or not you’re making the most out of your life.
First of all, calm down and take a couple of deep breaths. Understand that we all fall into some form of routine that includes sleeping, waking and eating. You’re not leading the dullest life of any human that has ever existed. However, having a healthy amount of spontaneity in life is a necessary ingredient required to keep things exciting.
In this article, we’re going to briefly discuss ways to be more spontaneous as well as some important things to keep in mind while you do so.
Trust your feelings
Being a logical, rational person is by no means a character flaw. There’s a point, however, in which being too analytical has its drawbacks. If you consistently say no and avoid things despite your initial reaction being willingness and excitement, it may be time to listen to your gut. There is something to be said for that impulsive instinct you feel when deciding whether or not to go for something. It’s perfectly okay to let your gut overrule your logical side here and there.
Say what you need to say
If you can readily recall situations in which you felt compelled to speak up and say something yet failed to do so, a little boost in spontaneity could do you some good. Whether the situation is a business meeting, a rude comment someone makes to you or introducing yourself to the person you’ve been crushing on for what feels like forever, being spontaneous and bold enough to speak can save you the dreaded pain of regret.
Should you impulsively blurt out every thought that comes to mind? Absolutely not. However, saying what you need to say when you know it would be to your advantage is the right move more often than not.
