How a Lifelong Messy Person Can Learn to Become Neat

Experts in habit formation are adamant that no one’s a hopeless case

Alexandra Samuel

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6 min readJul 1, 2019

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It’s been a tradition of mine for years now: Every summer, my house has gone through a wild roller-coaster ride of a makeover, from total mess to sparkling and back again.

Alexandra Samuel

Written by Alexandra Samuel

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Forge

Speaker on hybrid & remote work. Author, Remote Inc. Contributor to Wall Street Journal & Harvard Business Review. https://AlexandraSamuel.com/newsletter

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