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Every ‘Yes’ You Say Is a ‘No’ to Something Else

Why it’s so hard for us to understand this

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It is with some pride that I can think of some “big” things I have passed on doing.

Tickets to the Super Bowl.

A trip to Necker Island.

More than a few different book deals.




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Ryan Holiday

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