Don’t Underestimate Your Talents— and the Value They Bring to the World
We need to appreciate our strengths the way other people do
“How much did you make?” I ask my daughter when she returns from her latest babysitting gig. She’s home from college for the summer and has more families calling her than she can accommodate.
“They paid me $80,” she says.
She can tell by the incredulous look on my face I’m thinking about how I used to make $1.25 an hour for doing that.
“I know, right?” she says with a sheepish half-smile. “I feel kinda guilty, because the kids were only awake for an hour. They slept the other three hours. I never even quoted them an hourly rate — that’s just what they gave me.”
My mind goes back to our own nightmarish experiences with babysitters when she and her brother were toddlers. Last minute cancellations. Kids still up watching TV when we got home at midnight. Dirty dishes still on the dining table.
Once, we came home to find our then-two-year-old son jumping on the bed next to a wide-open second floor window — while the babysitter had been downstairs on her phone.
“You know what?” I tell my daughter. “They paid you that because that’s your value to them. It’s not whether the kids are…
