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Constantly Reinventing Yourself Is an Underrated Way to Live
Three ways to push the boundaries of who you can be
Every two years, I fall flat on my face — on purpose.
I’ll work my way to getting fired from a job or even quit just for the hell of it. I’ll end a romantic relationship when things probably could have been repaired. I’ll change the way I earn money from various side hustles. I’ll go from suit jackets to hoodies to see if I feel any different.
None of the changes are necessary, or even the “best” decisions per se, but each change keeps me from getting bored and helps me live a different way.
Until recently, I never dissected the reason why I reinvent myself on a regular basis. Then I came across a quote from the writer Derek Sivers: “The way to live is to regularly reinvent yourself.”
Of course, there can be value in sticking with something that’s hard or no longer exciting, but we tend to focus too much on remaining true to one lifelong self. Sivers argues that we should change our preferences, opinions, and usual responses. He writes on his website, “I usually try the opposite of whatever I did before.” As he explains, doing what you’ve always done is bad for your brain. Personal reinvention is necessary to stay interesting to yourself. Because if you’re…
