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Build Your Habits Like You Build Your Relationships

If we gave our habits half the care that we give our relationships, we’d all be better humans

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“I built an amazing marriage overnight,” said nobody ever. That would make for an enticing headline, but we’d be rightly suspicious of the contents. We know that our relationships take a lot. On the other hand, in a…




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Steven R. Durgin

Steven R. Durgin

Ex-social worker. Lay anthropologist. Director of Mastermind Development @ Vos. Trying to figure out what it means to be human.

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