At Work, Are You an Integrator or a Segmenter?

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to work-life balance

Melody Wilding, LMSW
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LLet’s do an exercise: Take a minute to define your ideal work-life balance. Think about how you’ll divide your time between these two parts of your day — the personal and the professional — and how you’ll transition between them.

Which of these two descriptions feels more in line with what you’ve just dreamt up?

  1. I draw a hard line between my career and my non-work roles, and I don’t want to mix them. When I’m on the clock, I’m focused on my job, so that I don’t have to think about sending any late-night emails once I’m done for the day.
  2. I like having the freedom to blend my work life and non-work life, and move back and forth between the two as needed. I’m at my best when I can be flexible — taking a work call after dinner seems like a fair trade to be able to run an errand during work hours.

Researchers call people who relate to the first description segmenters, meaning they avoid overlap between their work and home lives. Segmenters may also keep separate calendars for office and personal appointments, for example, or carry a separate business phone. They may even make it a habit to eat different foods while on the clock, or change outfits to signal a transition to…

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Melody Wilding, LMSW
Forge

Author of TRUST YOURSELF. Executive coach to Sensitive Strivers. Human behavior professor. Featured in NYT, NBC, CNN. https://melodywilding.com/book