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5 Lessons on Coping and Thriving from Around the World

Wisdom is portable — even when we’re stuck at home

Eric Weiner
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5 min readApr 30, 2020

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When fear and despair nip at our heels, some people turn to religion; others to psychology, or tequila. As a longtime travel writer and lifelong wanderer, I turn to my globe. It’s nothing fancy — a simple, steel model, faded from use and old enough to include the Soviet Union. But that globe is my talisman and my salve, a reminder of where I’ve been and what I’ve learned there.

I subscribe to Henry Miller’s philosophy of travel: “One’s destination is never a place but a new way of looking at things.” Such transformed vision demands open eyes and ears, as well as a willingness to wonder: What do these people know about living that I don’t? We can’t mime other cultures, but we can mine them — learn from them.

Wisdom is portable, even when we’re stuck at home. Here are five “place lessons” that have sustained me during these trying times.

From Iceland: Trust thy neighbor

Iceland is a remote island-nation, cold and dark for much of the year. Yet it is one of the world’s happiest. Why?

In a word: trust. It is the most precious form of social capital, and Iceland is awash in the stuff. During my visit more than a decade ago, I…

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Eric Weiner
Eric Weiner

Written by Eric Weiner

Philosophical Traveler. Recovering Malcontent. Author of five books. My latest,:"BEN & ME: In Search of a Founder's Formula for a Long and Useful Life."

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