Stop Trying to Reinvent Yourself and Get to Know Yourself Instead
Clarity and heightened self-awareness come when we allow ourselves to fall back to zero
A few things had happened of late that made me question the direction I was taking. My motivation and clarity were at an all-time low.
“What’s next?” I thought to myself.
“Where do I want to take my career and my writing?”
Trapped in a vicious cycle, I felt like everything I was doing fell under someone else’s control.
With a young family to support, I woke up each day feeling old.
“Don’t do anything right now,” my friend Kevin Ervin Kelley, AIA said when I found myself complaining to him on a perfectly sunny Monday afternoon.
“And when I say ‘anything’ I mean do absolutely nothing! Give yourself a month to not work or write. Allow yourself to get so bored you want to explode. You don’t need to reinvent yourself. You need to take the time to get back to your true self. You’ve got the seed. Allow yourself to go back to zero!”
Kevin and I share a lot of the same qualities. Ambitious. Persistent. These qualities can be professional strengths. They can also be serious personal weaknesses.
