A Decision-Making Framework for Re-Entering the World

Having a plan in place will make it easier to navigate the gray area ahead

Ashley Abramson
Forge

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An aerial view of people social distancing as they talk and walk down the boardwalk at Long Beach, New York on May 21, 2020. Photo: Al Bello/Getty Images

A few weeks before shelter-in-place orders began, my family and I sat at our favorite restaurant weighing the pros and cons of taking a long-planned trip to Phoenix. After a brutal Minnesota winter, we needed some Vitamin D. Our kids would be disappointed if we bailed. Plus, we’d spent a good amount of money on flights, which we might not get back.

Despite all that, we decided it wasn’t worth the risk of getting ourselves, or others, sick. We stayed home. In hindsight, I’m relieved we didn’t travel during what became a global pandemic. But in the moment, I wished someone would just tell us what to do.

While the following weeks were full of anxiety, decision-making became easier in light of the obvious risk. The rules were clear-cut: Wear a mask. Wash your hands. Don’t go outside unless you have to.

Now, as communities begin to reopen, the black-and-white rules are once again blending into a murky gray area. It’s once again up to each of us to figure out what feels safe and what feels like too much of a risk.

For some people, that newfound freedom will feel refreshing. For others, it’s a nerve-wracking amount of responsibility…

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Ashley Abramson
Forge

Writer-mom hybrid. Health & psychology stories in NYT, WaPo, Allure, Real Simple, & more.