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A Better Way to Check in Than ‘How Are You’

Why observations are more powerful than questions

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Last year, when my son started kindergarten, my mom friends warned me that he might come home irritable the first few weeks. They were right: My normally happy-go-lucky five-year-old would trudge off the bus, throw his backpack on the entryway floor, and turn on the TV without a word (except to demand a bowl…

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Writer-mom hybrid. Health & psychology stories in NYT, WaPo, Allure, Real Simple, & more.

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