Alexander M. CombstrongFollowOct 22, 2020·2 min read·Member-onlyUse These 3 Words to Kick Negative Self-TalkA simple perspective switchCredit: Martin Novak/Getty ImagesMaybe these thoughts sound familiar:“I feel really nervous. I shouldn’t be so nervous.”“I really messed up. I can’t do anything right.”“I feel like I don’t fit in.”