Surely I’m not the only one who has found it difficult to focus and work efficiently recently, by which I mean for the past year or so. But I’ve also discovered an unexpected trick for getting work done in difficult times: You don’t need to find your own productivity if you can borrow it from someone else.
I’m not talking about some kind of dark magic where I transfer my procrastination to others. The alchemy I mean is the burst of energy I can get simply from watching TV. …
⚙️ Today’s tip: Identify the emotions around procrastination.
Procrastination isn’t always a time management issue. Sometimes, it’s an emotional issue.
Pick a task you’ve put off. Ask yourself how you feel when you think about it. Now, connect that feeling to your procrastination. What about this task is making you feel that way?
Want to be free of that feeling? There’s an easy solution. All you have to do is complete the task. And now you’re free.
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A few weeks ago I stumbled upon an incredibly useful thought exercise I’m calling “the 10:30 a.m. question.” It occurred to me when my part of Pennsylvania got hit with a heavy winter storm one Wednesday. The forecast called for snow, heavy winds, and ice, and the power company warned of potential outages. I worried I’d only have until mid-morning, 10:30 or so, to work.
Like most people who work from home, I rely on my internet connection. …
The Roman-era Stoic philosopher Seneca once joked that the one thing fools all have in common is that they are always getting ready to live but never actually do.
That was 20 centuries ago. For tens of thousands of years, people have been procrastinating just like you do today: They put things off, delayed, made excuses, and wished their deadlines would disappear. And just as it does with you, this caused them anxiety, made them piss off their colleagues and families, and, worst of all, wasted time.
Fortunately, unlike our ancient counterparts, we have ages of wisdom to help us…
Yesterday, I saw this Instagram post by the illustrator Liz Fosslien, shared it with the rest of the Forge team, and then… procrastinated writing anything about it.
Why? It’s right there on the chart: I didn’t know where to start.
When we put things off, it almost never makes us feel easy and unburdened. The therapist Kathleen Smith has written that procrastination, at its core, is a relationship problem — that worrying about how our work will be perceived can drive us to avoid it altogether. …
Dear Laura: I seem to thrive on time pressure. Whenever I have a big project, I find myself putting it off until the last possible minute. Then I race to get it done. I worry this isn’t healthy long-term. What should I do?
Everyone puts things off from time to time. Sometimes it’s just smart time management: Not everything needs to be done right this minute. Procrastination, on the other hand, has a specific and negative definition: It means delaying a task even though you know doing so will make you worse off.
This is almost always what is happening…
The writer Shane Parrish, perhaps best known as a self-improvement guru for the Wall Street crowd, recently tweeted, “The four most dangerous words to accomplishing your dreams are: ‘I’ll do it later.’”
If you’re someone who hasn’t started that new crocheting hobby you bought supplies for five years ago or made any headway on the proposal for that project you wanted to pitch to your boss, these words may strike a chord. We’re often so busy tackling our daily must-dos that our wish-to-dos, the endeavors that give our life pleasure and meaning, get put off — sometimes forever.
Martha’s New Year’s resolution was to start therapy, but she didn’t show up to my office until April. In her defense, she came in to talk about her trouble with deadlines.
Martha, who worked remotely as a pop-culture reporter for a popular website, told me in our sessions that her biggest challenge was procrastination. Her job had become uninteresting, and she would delay an interview or rewrites on an article until she convinced herself that there wasn’t enough time left for the article to be great. This generated anxiety, which further fueled the procrastination. …
Just get it done, in all its iterations — just write 500 words, just run for 20 minutes, just send the email — usually seems like sound advice. And it can be when you’re procrastinating because you don’t want to do whatever it is. But sometimes the point when you actually sit down to do something is precisely when the problem starts: When the only way you know how to do something is perfectly, it can feel too overwhelming to begin.